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Hot take: I don't think a date asking about marriage is always a red flag.

I went to dinner with someone in Boise, and over dessert she asked, 'So, what's your five year plan, including marriage?' Everyone says that's a huge warning sign, but I liked her directness. Has anyone else had a blunt question that actually worked out okay?
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violatorres
My buddy got asked on a first date if he wanted kids, like right after they ordered. He said yeah, and she was relieved because she didn't want any. They're still friends, and it saved a lot of time. I see what @ryanburns means about honesty.
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ryanburns
ryanburns1mo ago
Totally, honesty beats playing games.
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the_margaret
It's a filter, not a game.
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